About me as a workshop facilitator and coach
Human bodies with all their physical and mental sensations are pure beauty for me. When play partners trustingly surrender to being touched in the most intimate places, erotic magic happens.
Along the way, I am on a mission to make sex understandable beyond heteronormative penetrative sexual intercourse and promote the shame-free exploration of one's own desires.
As a workshop facilitator and coach, I combine technical knowledge, practical experience and emotional sensitivity.
After many years of intensive exploration and self-awareness with my own sexuality and through the world of BDSM, I have accumulated a lot of knowledge, skills and experience. I am happy to be part of your personal journey and support you in creating enriching experiences.
Coaching with me can focus on one of the following three pillars:
Learning
technical skills
For play partners and individuals
You know what you would like to learn. It's about technique, materials, hygiene, risks and safety.
e.g. for
Impact Play
How to enjoy pain
Breath Control
Anal Play / Pegging
Restriction with/without rope
Urethral Play: Sounding and Cathethers
Needle Play and Simple Sutures
You come alone or as a couple. If necessary, I will organize a person to volunteer as a practice subject. I will provide you with concentrated knowledge, share some stories and give you the opportunity to try things out. You benefit from my expertise and the studio's equipment.
You can focus entirely on learning. Of course we can share a laugh, but it's not a session. Nobody has to look sexy or perform anything. Relaxed learning where no question is too stupid to be asked.
Communication / Session Planning
For play partners/couples
The fantasy is perfect and the technical skills have already been learned quite well. Nevertheless, there are still these doubts.
What if something goes wrong? What if the other person doesn't like it?
What if I'm too boring?
Unlike vanilla sexuality in mainstream media, where most communication is non-verbal flirting and sparks fly, BDSM has countless tools and concepts for communicating needs, desires and boundaries. And that before, during and after play.
We take a journey through different concepts, find a common vocabulary and reduce inhibitions in communicating with each other with customized exercises.
Ideally, you come to me as a couple. We will explore your current situation, your uncertainties and I will give you tips on session planning.
Personal self-discovery
for individuals
You bring your own personal questions and, of course, your own biography of (un)experienced sexuality.
This type of coaching is about discovering and reconciling with your own kinky preferences.
Why does something cruel like that turn me on?
Is it okay for me as a woman to be submissive?
What does BDSM mean to me personally?
What can I learn from BDSM for other areas of my life?
BDSM can be an addition to or focus of your personal sexuality, or it can be completely separate from it and bring fun and relaxation or karthasis. Or it can be a playground for testing your own physicality and limits.
I will help you to find a voice for your experience.
Your next step
I tailor each coaching session to your individual needs. The perspectives of the three pillars merge seamlessly into one another.
Who are you? Where are you in your (sexual) biography right now? What is your topic?
Send me your coaching request by email. I will usually reply within a few days with further questions or a concrete proposal and conditions for a (first) session.
I look forward to meeting you!